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    Home » Afternoon Tea at Home

    Ideas to Plan a Tea Party

    Published: Oct 30, 2024 · Modified: Nov 19, 2024 by Candi Elm · This post may contain affiliate links

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    Use this guide with ideas to plan a tea party that combines history, recipes, and ideas, perfect for anyone looking to create a beautiful and meaningful tea gathering. With these tips, you’ll be well on your way to an elegant tea party filled with delicious scones, charming stories, and warm conversation.

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    Tips to Host a Tea Party

    Hosting a tea party is a wonderful way to bring friends together for an afternoon of elegance, delicious flavors, and engaging conversation. Whether you’re planning a few friends for tea or a larger event, consider the essentials: beautiful table settings, a well-curated tea selection, and delicious treats to complement each cup of tea. Set the tone with delicate china, fresh flowers, and themed decor for an unforgettable atmosphere. Remember, it’s not just about the tea but about creating a warm and inviting space where friends feel comfortable and appreciated.

    History of Afternoon Tea

    Afternoon tea has a fascinating history that dates back to the 1840s. It all began with Anna, the Duchess of Bedford, who introduced this ritual to satisfy her midday hunger. At that time, the tradition of lunch was not as prevalent, so dinner was typically served late in the evening. By introducing tea and light snacks in the afternoon, Anna’s solution became a fashionable custom. This is a fun fact to share at your tea party.

    Types of Tea Events

    From high tea to afternoon tea, tea events come in different forms. Afternoon tea is a lighter affair, traditionally served with finger sandwiches, scones, and sweet pastries. High tea, by contrast, is more substantial, featuring savory dishes such as meat pies, salads, and hearty bread. Other tea events, like cream teas (consisting simply of tea and scones with clotted cream and jam), or garden teas, where floral arrangements take center stage, allow for a unique experience tailored to the occasion. Have fun and enjoy your event whichever type it may be.

    Tea Ministry

    Have you ever wanted to start a Tea ministry? This ministry is a tradition in some communities, where tea gatherings are used as a means of fellowship and sharing. Many churches and groups use tea parties to bring people together, fostering a sense of connection and community. In this way, tea can be more than a beverage; it becomes a means of building relationships, offering comfort, and sharing uplifting moments.

    The Teacup Story

    The Teacup story is a parable based on Jeremiah 18b relating to the Potter and Clay. This is a fun and precious story to share at your Tea Party or next womens event or Bible Study.

    Teapot for a tea party on a table.

    The Origins of the Scone

    Scones are an essential part of any tea gathering, with a history rooted in British and Scottish tradition. The scone’s origins can be traced back to the 16th century in Scotland, where they were made from oats and cooked on griddles. These early scones were heartier and less refined than those we enjoy today. As tea gatherings gained popularity, the scone transformed into a more delicate, crumbly delight. Modern scones are typically baked and often flavored with ingredients such as currants, raisins, or blueberries, making them a perfect partner for tea.

    How to Bake Scones

    Baking the perfect scone requires simple ingredients and a light touch. Start with flour, baking powder, salt, and cold butter, which should be worked into the dry ingredients until it resembles coarse crumbs. Add in milk and gently mix until a dough forms. For added flavor, try adding lemon zest or dried fruits.

    Best Flavors of Tea Scones

    Flavored scones add a unique twist to traditional tea gatherings. Classic scone flavors include blueberry, cranberry, and raisin, which are crowd-pleasers and pair beautifully with a variety of teas. Lemon-poppy seed and orange-ginger scones add a citrusy brightness, while savory flavors like rosemary and cheddar offer a unique alternative. For those who enjoy a hint of spice, cinnamon or chai-spiced scones provide a cozy, aromatic option. Experimenting with different flavors ensures that there’s something for everyone to enjoy.

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    Ultimate Tea Party Ideas

    For a memorable tea party, try incorporating some creative elements into your gathering. Themed tea parties are a fun option—consider a Victorian theme for an authentic feel or a garden tea with fresh flowers and floral accents. Set up a DIY tea bar where guests can choose from an array of teas, sweeteners, and add-ins like honey sticks, mint leaves, and lemon slices. Encourage guests to dress up or bring their favorite teacup for a more personal touch. Personalized tea bags or floral centerpieces make wonderful favors to send home as a memento. Find more tea tips here.

    15 Tea Party Sandwiches

    The sandwiches at a tea party are as delightful as the tea itself. The classics include cucumber with cream cheese, smoked salmon with dill, and egg salad with a hint of chive. For a unique twist, try curried chicken salad or a pimento cheese filling. Prosciutto with fig, brie with apple, and roasted red pepper with feta bring more sophisticated flavors to the table. Remember to cut the sandwiches into small, crustless squares or triangles for easy nibbling.

    Tea Party Desserts

    No tea party is complete without tea party desserts to indulge in. Offer an assortment of sweet treats that complement the flavors of tea, such as lemon bars, macarons, mini éclairs, and petit fours. Shortbread cookies, madeleines, and chocolate-dipped strawberries are delightful options as well. For an extra touch, try making tea-infused desserts, like earl grey-flavored cupcakes or spiced cookies. A balanced assortment of light, flavorful desserts will add to the enjoyment and provide the perfect finish to a lovely tea gathering.

    The Difference Between Earl Grey and Lady Earl Grey Tea

    Both Earl Grey and Lady Earl Grey are beloved teas, but they have distinct characteristics. Earl Grey is a black tea infused with bergamot oil, giving it a citrusy flavor that’s both bold and refreshing. Lady Earl Grey, a milder version, combines bergamot with hints of lemon peel and orange blossoms. This tea has a softer, floral aroma and less intense flavor, appealing to those who prefer a subtler experience. Whether you choose the classic strength of Earl Grey or the delicate notes of Lady Earl Grey, each adds a unique dimension to any tea party.


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    About Candi Elm

    Candi Elm is the recipe developer and food photographer at A Day In Candiland where she has been sharing Encouragement, Recipes, and Afternoon Tea Ideas since 2012. Candi currently lives in Southern California with her family and enjoying life to the fullest.

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