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    Home » Afternoon Tea at Home

    Afternoon Tea For Two Party Ideas

    Published: Oct 10, 2013 · Modified: Nov 3, 2025 by Candi Elm · This post may contain affiliate links

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    You don’t need a large crowd to have a fun tea party! These afternoon tea for two party ideas will help you plan the best celebration for you and a friend.

    There won’t be as much preparation, and it’s a lot of fun. Why not make it a surprise and invite your best friend or your mom over and have an intimate Tea Party for Two!

    Afternoon Tea can be very encouraging and uplifting. You can even incorporate Tea into a Bible study. Find more Afternoon Tea recipes and tips on this page. 

    Afternoon Tea Party For Two

    Do you remember that cute song? “Tea for two, and two for tea!” That song played in my head as I wrote this fun guide. Hosting your very own tea party is so fun when it is a private and intimate one for just two people.

    Planning a tea party for two people is a lot easier than planning for a large group. In this guide, I’ll take you through every single step. Follow them, and you’ll be able to plan – and host – your very own personal tea party.

    1. Send An Invitation

    Let’s go back to times past, where you weren’t in a hurry and you planned things out. Make it feel like your friend is the most important person there is. Create a nice invite that you made by hand and send it to your BFF. It could be formal or informal. You could also handwrite a letter and include your favorite quote or scripture in your invite.

    Even though you are only inviting one other person to your tea party, you should still send an invitation. This makes them feel loved and makes the entire event feel more formal.

    2. Pick Your Tea Party Theme

    Next, pick your theme. The theme will help you focus and give you more ideas for all the other parts of the party, like the decorations and the food choices.

    Some of my favorite tea for two party themes are:

    • A Dessert Tea
    • Birthday Tea Party
    • A Best Friend’s Tea
    • An Afternoon Tea with Sandwiches
    • Scones and Tea
    • Mother’s Day Tea
    • A Mad Hatter Tea Party

    3. Choose Decorations

    Once you have chosen your theme, get to work and decorate for your party.

    The most basic tea party decorations that you need to start with include:

    • Tablecloth
    • Teacups
    • Napkins
    • Small Plates

    Everything does not have to match. You can use mismatched plates or your best china – the choice is up to you. Visit this article for more Tea Party Ideas.

    Using real china just makes it so special. This is the perfect occasion to get them out and show them off.

    Light a few candles, put on some soft music, and get ready for a nice visit. Maybe get your camera out and take a few pictures of your table and with your friend. Make these wonderful scones, serve up some tea and the rest is up to you.

    Finally, don’t forget to add a lovely centerpiece to your table. I like to use a small vase with rose cuttings from my yard, but you can also pick up a small bouquet at your local market.

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    4. Afternoon Tea For Two Party Food

    Finally, plan the menu. Tea party food is petite and cute! It is usually small, bite-sized foods that are either sweet or savory.

    Planning the menu can be so much fun! Here are a few basic tea party foods – customize them around your theme.

    • Hot Tea
    • Scones
    • Tea Sandwiches
    • Mini Dessert
    • Tea Party Cookies

    5. Conversation and Entertainment

    This is the best part of the day. Just spending time with your guest. You can read something out of your favorite book, or bring out old photos of the past to remember all the memories. Another great idea I like to do is read about the history of how Afternoon Tea was started. You can also read these fun Tea Etiquette and Faux Pas tips.

    If you enjoy the Art of Tea enjoy these Afternoon Tea finds in my Amazon store and join our Facebook and Instagram Community.

    Tea For Two Example: Mother Daughter Tea

    Let’s take what I just explained and give you a real-life example. Here’s how to plan a mother-daughter tea for two, from start to finish.

    If you want to create a Mother-Daughter Tea or Mother-Son Tea meaning an adult and a child, you could use fun paper plates and make small PB&J sandwiches. You can serve cookies for dessert and some fruit punch for your tea.

    Letting your child participate in an adult activity as a child bringing it to their level, can be fun, encouraging, and even a great teachable moment. You can teach them about etiquette and manners through these entertaining books.

    Here are some great gift ideas you can get your tea friend to show her how much you care.

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    About Candi Elm

    Candi Elm is the recipe developer and food photographer at A Day In Candiland where she has been sharing Encouragement, Recipes, and Afternoon Tea Ideas since 2012. Candi currently lives in Southern California with her family and enjoying life to the fullest.

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    1. Shana Norris says

      October 13, 2013 at 7:54 pm

      I looooooooove scones but haven't made them forever. Your cinnamon chip version looks so yummy.
      My recent post Weekly Menu Plan

      Reply
      • Candi says

        October 15, 2013 at 12:48 am

        They are so good. Thanks for stopping by.

        Reply
    2. Candi says

      October 15, 2013 at 12:48 am

      I was thinking maybe of doing a skype tea party, thats an idea.

      Reply
    3. Terri says

      March 01, 2019 at 3:41 pm

      5 stars
      Having a tea party at my church, theme “The Bride of Christ”. I think theses scones would be great, especially the heart shaped ones. Thanks for sharing the recipe. Will also share the tea cup story.
      Be blessed and be a blessing, Terri

      Reply
    4. Sherry says

      December 19, 2023 at 1:38 pm

      Thank you Candi for this idea. I get overwhelm with too many people and my apartment is not a place to have a loud party, so having one or two friends at a time would be a perfect gathering. Sherry

      Reply

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